How To Be Happily Single On Valentine’s Day (And What Activities You Can Do)
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Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to shower your loved one with roses, chocolates and a romantic date, but if you have recently broken up with some half-wit, been super-single since the stone-age or your failing situationship has come to an abrupt halt, don’t worry, you are not alone!
It’s easy to have a bit of FOMO (Fear of missing out), especially when there is a sloppy rom-com being advertised on the TV every second, cute and fluffy teddy bears holding love hearts with embroidered love words in the shop window, all of your friends have a partner and have boasted about their exciting plans, but guess what - you can enjoy this holiday just as much as them, even on your lonesome.
So don’t feel left out because of one single lovey-dovey day of the year and don’t bury your head into a tub of ice cream either!
In fact, spending V-Day solo might even be beneficial for you.
WHY BEING SINGLE ON VALENTINE’S DAY MIGHT BE GOOD FOR YOU
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There is a societal pressure, sometimes even a familial pressure to be in a relationship especially for women, and there’s a common social stigma attached to singleness, because relationships are seen as an achievement and without being in one - you are falling short somehow.
That pressure can make you feel anxious or develop low-esteem, but time away from the dating and relationship world can be an invigorating experience.
Not everyone wants to be in a relationship, some people haven’t found the right person yet and others are simply enjoying their own company.
In an interview with British Vogue in 2019, actress Emma Watson, described her relationship status as “self-partnered”, meaning she embraces the concept of feeling complete and happy as an individual.
Even if you plan on meeting someone in the near or far future - it’s really important to establish a healthy relationship with yourself first anyway.
ACTIVITIES YOU CAN DO ON VALENTINE’S DAY
Being single is no tragedy, but a chance to explore what you really love and appreciate about yourself and have some fun along the way.
So what can you do on this years’ February 14th to take your mind off the urge to cyber-stalk your ex, well, there’s plenty you can do to show your fabulous self some love!
After all, self-love is #relationshipgoals within itself, right?
Check these 10 ideas below that you can do on and after V-day.
1. GIVE YOURSELF A SPA DAY
Enjoy some self-pampering - you deserve it!
Apply a fruity face mask, slap on two cucumber slices on your eyes, paint your nails, massage your feet…anything!
…Maybe don’t try to wax your own eyebrows though!
2. TREAT YOURSELF TO A GIFT
You love you too! So why not treat yourself to a gift or two?
Fill up those wish-list items in the shopping basket and hit the ‘buy it now’ button.
At least you don’t have to stress about trying to find the perfect gift for someone else.
3. VOLUNTEER
A charitable activity will definitely lift your mood, and it’s something that will always be in demand.
There are many different types and places to volunteer like animal shelters, soup kitchens, park clean-ups, fundraising, festivals and many more!
What a great way to support your local community and potentially make new friends.
4. ORGANISE & DE-CLUTTER YOUR BEDROOM
When you de-clutter your space, you reset the mind.
Spend the day properly stacking your books, re-organising your wardrobe and tidy up your jewellery cabinet, you might find it to be therapeutic too.
5. TAKE A YOGA CLASS
Yoga is one of the most common ways to practice mindfulness, improve physical fitness and increase your self-esteem.
So head over to a yoga class, who knows? You might meet someone new there or make some friends.
6. HAVE A MOVIE MARATHON
Throw on your PJ’s, grab yourself some snacks and enjoy all of what Netflix has to offer.
Whether it’s a relatable rom-com like Bridget Jones or a spooky horror like Sinister, create a playlist and let it run!
7. COOK YOURSELF A LOVELY MEAL
While you might not have a dinner date on the cards, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t tuck into a delicious meal.
The meal doesn’t have to be particularly fancy, but cooking a nice meal is just an easy way to show yourself some appreciation.
8. INDULGE IN A GOOD BOOK
Diving into a good book is a mode of entertainment, great for the imagination and stress-reducing.
If you’d prefer an audiobook, browse Audible which have a large catalogue of audiobooks, and you start with a 30-day free trial.
9. BABYSIT, AND MAKE MONEY!
With so many couples wanting to go on a date for Valentine’s Day, they’ll be needing a babysitter.
This is the perfect opportunity to do something positive and helpful that day whilst earning some extra cash!
10. DO SOMETHING ADRENALINE-PUMPING
Fear not! There are other ways to get your heart racing on V-Day.
Adrenaline-pumping activities like indoor climbing, quad-biking and bungee jumping are very exciting ways you can get hot and sweaty without a partner!
…Or you could just treat Valentine’s Day like any other day :)
Let me know your solo plans for this year in the comments.
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Chanel x
